Category: Single Motherhood

  • Let It Burn: The Parts No One Prepares You For

    Let It Burn: The Parts No One Prepares You For

    When my daughter was eight months old, her father left — and I was left to figure out motherhood and heartbreak at the same time. This is the story behind Let It Burn… and what it really felt like to fall apart while still holding it down.

  • Please Excuse the Mess: A Song About Real Life, Not Perfect Love

    Please Excuse the Mess: A Song About Real Life, Not Perfect Love

    This isn’t a love song about butterflies. It’s about real life—about starting something new when you’ve already been through so much, and what it really means to let someone into a life that’s already full.

  • It’s Not the Mess

    It’s Not the Mess

    Behind every “mess” is a mother doing her best with more on her plate than anyone realizes.

  • You Asked for This

    You Asked for This

    One of the things people love to say to single mothers is, “You asked for this.” As if that one sentence explains everything about a life they know nothing about. This piece is about the assumptions, the judgment, and the reality of raising a child while the world thinks it already knows your story.